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#1 Rule For A Perfect First Date (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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Χριστιαννα Μπλετσα (1 день назад)
ok ok really helphul all those things BUT WHAT YOU DO WHEN TODAY IS YOUR FIRST DATE WITH SOMEONE (realy hot haha) THAT SPEAKS ONLY ENGLISH AND YOU ARE SO BAD IN ENGLISH (wish me good luck people #ohgod )
Kaseydilla (2 дня назад)
i like movies cuz then you don't really need to talk
Ayelet Yam (9 дней назад)
Thank you. Im going on the first date of my life today, with a stranger, and were going to a resturant. Really thank you😭👿😡😭
Rebecca Persaud (14 дней назад)
I bet he's single 😂 And giving advise
Blue -eyed (15 дней назад)
Stupid advice. This moron thinks lying is a good idea and especially making an obvious lie. Is this shithole someone you wanna date ladies?
Jennifer Olivito (17 дней назад)
sry but getting drinks on a date is not a good idea. I think the idea is good but maybe kinda hard to find 3 things to do. plus 3 things is a lot for one date. idk
MamaMiaItsKeya (23 дня назад)
Lucky me! I’ve got a first date this evening and we planned to first get drinks at his favorite local dive and possibly go bowling after depending on how the drinks go lol.
Brianna Gendron (1 месяц назад)
The guy I have a crush on, we have the same interests.
Samantha jane Suarez (1 месяц назад)
I don't understand guys or men in general and I think that has been my problem all these years
New Thought (1 месяц назад)
Dinner is fine for a first date. You can learn about the other person and decide where to go from there, plus you get to eat!
Monika Kalecinska (1 месяц назад)
New Thought exactly my thought. I have only had good experiences with dinner dates as first dates. A bad first date Is going to the cinema or another place like it where you really can't talk freely and get to know each other
Adam Goodword (1 месяц назад)
Bowling. Hmmm. Ok. How about play some football. Throw the ball around. Do typical guy things. Have fun, run amok in the park. Find a common interest and go with that. Don't focus on trying to win him over, just focus on being best buds. ;)
Dez Allaby (1 месяц назад)
Makes so much sense now... Wow was i ever dumb 😂
Denise S (2 месяца назад)
FUCK! I Have a first dinner date in 30 minutes. And I already don't want to go 🙈
xMyPointlessChannelx (2 месяца назад)
I was surprised by your advice and I loved it! Thanks Mathew!
Andrew Rai (2 месяца назад)
As a guy who’s dated a lot, take a girl out for coffee first! Not even drinks. Don’t act desperate, be interested, listen to what she has to say, if she is interested she will ask you questions and engage. If she does not engage and seems like she’s uncomfortable then very smoothly end it with some excuse but don’t be rude or even show you are disappointed. Smile make eye contact say your goodbyes (kinda like you would with your bank manager) and move on to the next gal. Also whatever you do DONT ask her if there will another date, or should you call her etc.
Sara Mclaughlin (2 месяца назад)
How the fuck do you use all of this advice like it’s impossible I swear. Give up on dating? Who’s with me?
Rhea Morales (2 месяца назад)
What if you don't drink? I know coffee would be suggested next, but I drink neither alcohol nor coffee.
Arafa Arbab (2 месяца назад)
Thank you, coach,
Millie Charlotte (2 месяца назад)
Ahhh I’m so nervous! I’ve got a first date with my crush at a waterpark😬😬
Michelle Zareas (2 месяца назад)
I almost always do coffee for a first date. It’s perfect because it takes all of the pressure off of both of us! 😉
Animal Jammers (3 месяца назад)
My friends just set me up with one of thier friends tomorrow 😐
Dori TheFish (3 месяца назад)
Thanks Daniel Radcliffe, for this dating advice😂😂 (They sound exactly the same)
Paige Heartly (3 месяца назад)
Hey I’d like ur guys opinion on something! This guy I really like asked me to go to the movies with him. We had AP bio together last year but we never rly talked until now. Is the movies a good idea? Should I suggest something else and how? We’re both in high school btw.
Steffe I (3 месяца назад)
You the best
jennifer queen (3 месяца назад)
I've always been against "test dates" but you actually make a great point here of making the guy feel like he's earning it.
Daniel Kahn (3 месяца назад)
What makes you qualified?
jupiter 111 (3 месяца назад)
lol i went on a dinner date yesterday with a guy I just met on tinder and it went so well. he dropped me off at the train station and that's where we had our first kiss - it was beautiful
Monika Kalecinska (1 месяц назад)
jupiter 111 great to hear. I have a dinner date this evening with a guy from tinder and I'm getting nervous now after seeing this video
im good (3 месяца назад)
I have never had a date with someone (im 14 yr lol) and the best first date for me is like meet up having no clue where to go. Ask her where she want to go. For example we go to grab a drink or smth and then we sit on a bench just talk.
Josephine Doe (3 месяца назад)
If you don’t find the person interesting lol EAT and DIP (EAD)
Autumn Jackson (3 месяца назад)
Oh my god your accent
DevynnEBMusic (4 месяца назад)
Aw crap I have a dinner date tomorrow, now I’m worried! wish I would’ve seen this earlier
DevynnEBMusic (2 месяца назад)
Julien Horan thanks for asking! Haha Well, it went better than I thought, but not as good as it could’ve been.
Julien Horan (2 месяца назад)
DevynnEBMusic how did it go?
MrKratosYT (4 месяца назад)
This girl and I originally were gonna go out to dinner but she had to cancel because of something. Anyway we ended up just hanging out and going to this hookah bar that’s a half hour away. We talked non stop from the second we met up, I even broke the physical contact barrier right away. All the way to the hookah lounge, it was one of the realest conversations I’ve had. When we got there, she had forgotten her ID but so we ended up going back to her house and smoking a bunch of weed. It was an amazing first date and she was fucking beautiful. I guess the lesson here is be flexible, and don’t let shit ruin the date. Our original plan got fucked up, and the back up plan got fucked up, and we both still had an amazing time:)
burnzism (4 месяца назад)
I met a woman online and we finally set up a date after about a month of texting and chatting on the phone. We agreed to go see a movie but she wanted to see it at a Hi-Def 3d movie theater. The nearest Hi-Def theater was 30 minutes north of her, she lived 30 minutes north of me so the theater was an hour away from me. So instead of going to the Hi-Def theater, I asked if we could just go to a regular theater nearby. She responded by saying she really wants to see the movie in Hi-Def. I then suggested that I drive to meet her near her place, then she can drive the rest of the way to the Hi-Def theater. She then responded by saying she's been having car problems. It bothered me that she insisted on going to a particular theater but she wasn't willing to drive there/she didn't have a car. I thought us finally meeting in person was the point of the date, not the theater. Needless to say, I backed out of the date. The fact that she was unwilling to compromise really turned me off. I'd like to know what you all think about this.
Monika Kalecinska (1 месяц назад)
burnzism I think you made the right choice
Morgan Andreas (4 месяца назад)
Hey I just had a dinner date with someone and after dinner all he wanted to do was have sex was so uncomfortable 😣
Change Forever (4 месяца назад)
Bowling brakes nails 🤪
Cody PlayZ (4 месяца назад)
I got movie date tommorow
Miriama Patuwai (5 месяцев назад)
You might want to change your last name...just saying
Valerie Roussos (5 месяцев назад)
when youve already made the first mistake
Hugo Haddock (5 месяцев назад)
# 1 rule is watching this video!! Thanks man!
ariel kyloan (5 месяцев назад)
Went to a date with a guy then he said he was in jail for 10 years for malicious wounding. That did it for me
Unfiltered Life (6 месяцев назад)
Matthew sharing great content here! be sure to actually use this rule in your dating life. the one thing that I can add is actually detach you mind from this "pressure" that we all have when it comes to a first date. I believe that you should spend time just with a person that you value at least at you level and not compromising.
MissHannah2036 (6 месяцев назад)
It helps if you use a decent dating website, text and talk on the phone, then you get a real feel for the person. I had a great drinks, dinner, drink date with a guy from outer state. But I think we were both quite attracted to each other which helps.
Patrik Němeček (6 месяцев назад)
I have my date in 2 days, and idk if the pizza + wine outside you know like looking at the stars or some other things is good.. Im 19 so idk if the girl in my age will appreciate it
Isaiah lee (7 месяцев назад)
“There’s a fatal mistake that people make when your planing a date” lmao 😂😂 0:00
BluntForceTrauma ss (7 месяцев назад)
This date is going well how about we go to bed And let me have desert /._./
Catalina barqa (7 месяцев назад)
So coffee it is or drink it is.
LoveMe,com (7 месяцев назад)
Matthew is a great advisor! If someone who goes on dates right now and consider Matthew’s advice, I am sure he/she will have a perfect date.
ggsplace69 (8 месяцев назад)
Hey how about he says no thanks Huh!!
Stephen J (8 месяцев назад)
well sure but if my dinner date isn't going well I can just climb out the bathroom window
thisismusic (8 месяцев назад)
Is this for gay guys?
willie wilson (8 месяцев назад)
Thank you Harry Potter
Dr Sareeka Physiotherapist (9 месяцев назад)
Seriously, I was shocked there are big crap men, who woudl behave so fucking badly with a woman on first date. I never met douchebags in my real life but yes I met em through online dates
Dr Sareeka Physiotherapist (9 месяцев назад)
Every video I open, I promise myself that it's the last one... N again I end up watching more of Mathew Hussey videos 🤓
GreenBaray38 (9 месяцев назад)
Well shit. 45 seconds in and this guy just shot down the dinner date idea and I have my first in two days. Oh boy.
sofia aznaran (9 месяцев назад)
Is the cinema a good place for a first date? (Ps. my date is my classmate from college)
Slyc00perX (9 месяцев назад)
Funny how every video out there on guys telling us other guys how to get a girl how to go on a first date blah blah blah. And the guy in the video can get any girl just by breathing and then they talk with an accent that girls will give them a baby on the first date. While I'm sitting here looking like a burnt chicken nugget and when í talk it sounds like a dog singing friday by Rebecca Black
Damien Step (9 месяцев назад)
Unless u meet someone who u really really like and feel great connection and u are sure that this person will be your bf
ybn m7 (9 месяцев назад)
95% percent whose watching this video are single
دارك ولف (9 месяцев назад)
Are you gayyyy
Daz White (9 месяцев назад)
Wanker.
Mell Pink (10 месяцев назад)
another tip i got from a random guy : always go on a first date at noon or afternoon. If you meet in the evening it's way harder to find an escape, because in the afternoon you can still say hey i've got to meet a friend soon, if it doesn't go well. If you go fo drinks at 10 pm what the hell do you have to do at 11pm on a saturday? lol
Angelica Diaz (11 месяцев назад)
Agreed!!
Ayina (11 месяцев назад)
why am i here who would take me on a date lol
Serena Quaye (11 месяцев назад)
A guy I met online and I went to dinner for the 1st date. It was fine I think because like you said, unless you already have a connection than stay away from such setting. He was really forthcoming. Seem to know what he wanted and certainly wasted no time planning the date or speakin with me on the phone prior to meetin in person. I think the phone conversations helped ease the awkwardness that most first dates seem to have. Besides that, I think he had a real connection with me and vice versa. I talked with him for hrs upon hrs before meetin. It was a fun time. I enjoyed the conversations. I am from a diverse background as one can tell. I found out he’d visited my country few times in the past so he was a traveler. Quite knowledgeable about my culture etc. all of which helped increased my attraction towards him. He made reservations weeks ahead which I really love. I’m a bit of wild reserve type; he’s fun to be around, high energy who’s also emotionally available. I love that about him. Lots of common interest between us. I think we fell off because he was such a planner. And as attractive it may sound, sometimes there was this lack of spontaneity. I was a bit younger then. Well mid twenties. I lack the skills to communicate with a man or tell someone what I wanted from him or her. He did give me his entire wkds if or when he does make plans since am learning this means something to a man 🙄😜. It was never out of the blue. He called me one night after sometimes and said let’s go for a walk. It felt like hallelujah! 😂 We eventually fell off. I think it was the best decision for me afterall. I hope he’s happy and all is well in Netherlands 😉.
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Deckermama Beauty (11 месяцев назад)
I love it!
charleen hopkins (11 месяцев назад)
coffee that,s good for me. then could play pool or air hockey or arcade games
Nihal Hathaway (11 месяцев назад)
why does it look desperate if you have the whole evening free? I never plan two things on the same evening, I don't wanna be like "ah I really like you but my friend comes over in 5 mins so please go." ... I mean of course, it's mostly somebody that I've been chatting to for a while and I kind of know his character by then...
Sandra Jefferson (11 месяцев назад)
Mathew what would us ladies do without you! Thank you for the advice ❤️❤️
Aliien Wolf (1 год назад)
@Charles Gross
Alicia Lopez (1 год назад)
I have felt like this all the time finally good to hear someone vocalize it.....a drink in a bar is risky though
Maya Crane (1 год назад)
When you watch this video knowing you have a first date at a restaurant today 😂 fml
Monika Kalecinska (1 месяц назад)
Maya Crane same. How did it go? 🙈
Rejeane Ritter (1 год назад)
Haha...I always do this!
Anon Nymous (1 год назад)
I have an issue. I have a crush on a guy from my gym and he is hot and cold. He still seems open to me and he's tried approaching me several times but I was too shy to say anything. I am now considering talking to him and I'd really like to date him. I don't 'get laid' via weekend booty calls from random homeboys or what not, since I'm pretty conservative on pre-marital sex. He's tried to ignore me several times and many times when I tried to look at him and smile, he would just look away or stare straight at me without hardly any expression and I would then feel uncomfortable and quickly look away. My guess is he does not appear as much in need anymore towards me because he is getting laid, not by a girlfriend, but I think by just booty calls or random girls. That idea really turns me off and though I can't verify it, the thought of this makes me NOT want to DATE him. How do you find a very conservative gentleman who DOES NOT focus on getting laid with different women but is WAITING for the right one and WANTS TO WAIT until he finds the right one? I cannot date guy sluts who aim to get laid every weekend by random women. Its dirty.
1too3fore (1 год назад)
This guy is clueless and selfish. First dates are to be enjoyed as much as possible and to show respect to your date. I once took a blind date to her favorite restaurant. I didn't find her the least attractive and knew I would not be going on a second date but made sure she had the very best time. Drinks, appetizers, a main course, dessert, whatever she wanted and I let her take home all the leftovers. She was ecstatic, we laughed all night long and I spared no expense on her, on us. It was a memorable evening but that was it. If you're gonna go on a date, enjoy it as much as possible, after all it's your night out, too but there's reason to be a fuddy duddy and no reason to show your date the utmost respect. Make sure you both have a great time. You never know if you're gonna end up liking the person you go on that first date with nor if it's gonna last a lifetime, so you might as well make the most of every outing until one or both of you decide that it won't continue.
shrapnel77 (5 месяцев назад)
Why waste that amount of money when you knew you were not going out. Plus, you gave her hope. End it right away to avoid stringing her on, that's just mean.
Reneé (5 месяцев назад)
Sophia Bel He wrote that he didn’t find her attractive but enjoyed himself nonetheless.
Sophia Bel (6 месяцев назад)
1too3fore what made you think no second date since you had a wonderful time?
ba nana (1 год назад)
omg no more dinner dates for me seriously. wish i saw this vid before going on my last date which was terrible. We went for korean food and the dinner lasted two hours. Half hour in there were so many awkward silences already and he ordered so much food! Spent lots of time trying to finish everything. We have nothing in common and it was so hard to keep the convo going smh. Imma stick to coffee/ice cream from now on. Thanks for the advice, Matthew. I'll think of something fun to do next time if the date goes well..
Маша Вујановић (1 год назад)
Hey Matt, I got an idea: when woman is on a first date, and she is kind of person who wants a relationship, marriage, and he, as a man, wants sex on that first date, or on whichever date (important is to say the first time he express wish for having sex), she should say (when he start leading to having sex) that she is not a type of a woman who is having sex for one night. That's a test statement! By saying that, she lets him know her standard, and his reaction on that will discover his real intentions. I will use that! What do you think, do you like it?
Curly Rae (1 год назад)
As an artist, I work with color. The steely blue shirt you're wearing compliments you handsomely.
Ashley George (1 год назад)
What is you don't drink alcohol?
Irate People (1 год назад)
HELP! I don't have any bowling alleys around the corner! WHAT DO I DO NOW?
volare2013 (1 год назад)
Well just enjoy the food
Isaac Hernandez (1 год назад)
So I don't know this girl right but we have so much in common. Is that good enough for the first date?
sassy (1 год назад)
thanks for sharing, I'm enjoying the knowledge
Bnny Slpprs (1 год назад)
Call me daft: What's "stage 3"?
Neymar Senior (1 год назад)
This gets a like just because of his accent
Oh honeyy (1 год назад)
Oh fuck my life I'm going on a dinner date in few hours thank god it's just a sushi restaurant
male person (1 год назад)
I've just booked a first date that is dinner, thanks ahaha
//://: (1 год назад)
why is all dating advice filled with so much assumed lying ? strategies on how to escape by telling lies and so on how about rule number one just be honest ?
YukiSilverFox72 (1 год назад)
I have a friend who always plans lunch dates so that if it doesn't go well she has an out already.
John Boyega (1 год назад)
You see I did something similar, got drinks, went to a museum, got food at a casual place that we agreed to, then got more drinks which was also agreed upon, girl said she had a great time and it was her pleasure coming out. Then she slowly started going cold and has since ghosted me but still keeps an eye on me through social media.... fucken weird
John Boyega (1 год назад)
Kris Crenwelge you can see who views your stories on snapchat.
Kris Crenwelge (1 год назад)
how do you know shes kept an eye on you in social media?
Peave Eve (1 год назад)
This is perfect!
Sophia * (1 год назад)
When planning a first date plan one part such as coffee @ your favorite cafe. If that goes well let him decide the next part (having an idea what you want to do next).
Ji Li (1 год назад)
Wow~ Dating and relationship should be a subject to learn in University. Entry, strategy, tricks, execution, tips....
Brian Griffen (1 год назад)
Where i live all u have to say is wats up bitch u tryna Netflix and chill
My English is bad. But! You are a brilliant talker! I understand everything! So simple and catchable!
roger8654 (1 год назад)
Take her Salsa Dancing
Melissa Mc (1 год назад)
coffee date is the worst. hahaha.
Monika Negron (1 год назад)
Did I miss it or did you merge the 2nd and 3rd compartments of the date?
Lighthouse17 (1 год назад)
he gay , right?.
ggsplace69 (1 год назад)
Thanks

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