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Eye Contact - Confidence Trick & Biggest Mistake

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FREE Live Video session (25 July) with me about building Confidence. Limited spots, sign up here: http://www.masterconfidence.com/implementation-session Want to implement my top 10 confidence strategies? Check out my free PDF Guide - https://m.me/jimmynaraine?ref=w309963 Jimmy Naraine is an online entrepreneur and an award winning Udemy Instructor who builds educational content for his 78,000+ students while traveling full time (66 countries). Jimmy has been featured by publications such as Entrepreneur and Business Insider. Eye contact is extremely important and has a big impact on your level of success in social setting, relationships, but also in business. People who know how to maintain a friendly and confident, but not intimidating eye contact have a much higher chance to succeed in any walk of life. The ability to comfortably maintain direct eye contact is a trait of leaders and attractive, confident people. I made this video, because I know so many people who have problems with eye contact (especially maintaining direct eye contact for a long time). So many people get weirded out when looking into the other person's eyes. The problem is only augmented when the other person happens to be very attractive:) I am sharing with you a great eye contact trick that can be used anytime, anywhere and by anybody. It is extremely simple, but will make you feel more comfortable and you will appear more confident. I will also tell you about one of the biggest eye contact mistakes people make in the context of dealing with groups of people. I hope that you will find this video useful on your path to ultra confidence. Please let me know what you think in the comments below. Also, if you like the video please click LIKE and SHARE it with your friends:)
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salman nazrana (3 дня назад)
SJ Borah (12 дней назад)
How To break eye contact and where to look and how long we should avoid looking in the person's eye and start looking again..what is the difference when having a conversation with a girl or a woman. How not to look anxious or unconfident and keep looking down which looks very bad and appropriate,I often find girls/woman's feeling very uncomfortable, I feel very uncomfortable too and feels like a cheap person which is I'm not I swear..these days I'm having truoble making eye contact with my peers and neighbours..I just don't know how to break eye contact instead of looking aside and turn my face (which seem like I'm not interested in the conversation) I tend to look down while breaking eye contact..people often feel uncomfortable and try to hide their crotch as if I'm looking at it which in reality I'm not..pls help me get through this problem and give me a solution..I wanna feel more confident when speaking with anybody male or female..I wanna read their expression and feel them and bond a good connection..im tired of looking down I wanna help my head high and look at the world straight in the eye ball..
Ricardo Rodriguez (22 дня назад)
A carry a lot of shame.
yusuf honey (25 дней назад)
The problem is how to eye contact, I don't know. how to do it. I mean look at that eye's but which eye. left or right because I can't look At the both at the same time and keep switching seems so weied.
LocalTourist (29 дней назад)
If we can look ourselves in the eye when we look into a mirror, we can also look other people in the eyes, practice in the mirror, even if it is uncomfortable at first, just do it.
NKL (1 месяц назад)
"look into somebodies ass"
Justin Thibideaux (1 месяц назад)
Thanks nan
Justin Thibideaux (1 месяц назад)
Angel Pruitt (1 месяц назад)
thx u for the tips
Black Butterfly Bye (2 месяца назад)
Oh thats why i can look at my famliy eyes so Easley
Lekshmisajan Lechu (2 месяца назад)
anthony agront (3 месяца назад)
So can you alternate between looking at someones eyes to their nose to forehead and chin without them noticing
Jimmy Naraine (2 месяца назад)
Sure, but again - it depends on the context and the distance between 2 of you. The further you are, the easier it is.
Cheese Mf Balls (4 месяца назад)
I'm an anxious person so making eye contact sucks for me!! What usually helps me cope or to improve is to: 1) take slow steady breaths to calm my anxiety. 2) nod & smile ALWAYS. 3) Let my eyes gaze a little out of focus so its not as intimidating. While looking at persons FOREHEAD or NOSE. ( helpful trick! the person won't notice! he/she thinks your looking directly at their eyes! ) NOTE: Challenge yourself every time your out, its so worth it in the end! Trust Practice makes you more comfortable with eye contact.❤😉
Jimmy Naraine (2 месяца назад)
You made some great points, thanks for posting!
Sajibahmed Nehal (4 месяца назад)
how to stop eye contact plz tel
david,r. massey (4 месяца назад)
I have seen so many of these gurus claiming this and that. Here is my slant on eye contact and use. I had extreame hearing loss and a blotched Iriadectomy(loss of most of my colored part of one eye(Iris). Overcoming this personal drawback was and still is a sadending, but this resulted in the type"A" supper confident guy i now am. Developed a fitness near addiction that got body looks, and people noticed overall me, instead of just face. Then i studied in school(also 3yrs. college) so i could appear as a confident guy. Sure i've got a Clint Eastwood squint down to a science. Here is my point for this: If your your only wepon in life and social situations boils down to just eye contact, you have cement overshoes, and are waiting to be throw overboard. It's is what you do b/4 and after eye contact that makes your sell to anyone or group. So i admit i'am not a spelling and punctuation freak. READ THE MEANING OF WHAT I HAVE SAID!
Jimmy Naraine (2 месяца назад)
I agree - eye contact is just one of many elements. However, since many people had asked me about it I decided to make one video specifically on this topic. This doesnt mean that getting your eye contact handled will solve all the problems of course.
Black Beauty (4 месяца назад)
I can make eye contact with people for short time I feel uncomfortable and weird so I look at something else like I'm thinking but I'm not, most of time people think I'm not interested...
Jimmy Naraine (2 месяца назад)
Practice, practice, practice. Anything in this world can be learned. Start small, but practice often. The more you do it, the more comfortable you will start feeling (comes from a guy who had tremendous issues with maintaining the eye contact)
KANT AKASH (5 месяцев назад)
where the point on girl face i looked ?
Nick Carver (5 месяцев назад)
I notice the difference. I was looking for a reason why people do that. I find it to be deceiving.
Jimmy Naraine (2 месяца назад)
Look, I see your point. Ideally, you want to look people in the eyes and this is what I always do myself. However, this video is not directed at people with regular level of confidence. I made it thinking about all the people who experience extreme social anxiety and for them trying to maintain a strong eye contact may lead to a panic attack.
Meep (5 месяцев назад)
This doesnt help ._. ._. But idk why i cant get over it because everyone calls me rude for it when i literally just feel akward :(
david smith (6 месяцев назад)
Wow thats good advice its nice to talk to, and look girls in the eye😁👍
Athetis (6 месяцев назад)
Just focus on one eye and look directly under it
S. A. (7 месяцев назад)
Bdelliumharts (7 месяцев назад)
2 meters - look on nose, 5 meters - look at forehead, 20 meters - look at feet. You´re welcome.
Jacob Nguyen (8 месяцев назад)
Soso Ahmed8 (9 месяцев назад)
I don't understand I see another video see look in left eye ?
sumant (9 месяцев назад)
if you are pure & honest with your meeting concern then you can make eye contact easily, naturally & confidently , without thinking. even if you want to deceive that person , it doesn,t matter , but you need to honest with yourself , then you will be confident
Vladimir Lenin (9 месяцев назад)
Ha look at their nose 👃 nose like garden hose
Jack Straw (9 месяцев назад)
78,000+ students and just 20,000 subscribers. Something isn't working out there.
Emilio Solis (9 месяцев назад)
Another trick is to look at the space between the eyes I no longer need to apply it to my everyday conversations but it works and helps you get over I wouldn't consider it anxiety more like a phobia because we're taught it's not polite to stare well I was. While doing this also just control your breathing and you'll find its all in your head (:
yousef yassen (9 месяцев назад)
Can I call you ?
xd spacemeleon (9 месяцев назад)
0.36 you look ate somboty ass
Meansue (10 месяцев назад)
Doing all this would probably make the eye contact not feel genuine...and also I'm sure someone would notice if you look at someone's forehead or nose because their pupils would drift up and down lulz
Slashley gibbins (10 месяцев назад)
Sometimes I don’t even think about it, but, if I’m a bit hungover or stressed I become very self conscious and just want to look away and then I’m aware that when I did they noticed it and so the vicious circle begins...
Shamin Shaji (10 месяцев назад)
JulianRoyale (11 месяцев назад)
Look at the eyebrows, looking at forehead is a sign of arrogance usually and looking at the nose is too close to the mouth.
Lee (11 месяцев назад)
Great tips Jimmy - thanks much bro :)
ICET100 (11 месяцев назад)
Kenny X (11 месяцев назад)
eye contact is a very important form of nonverbal communication. so if you look anywhere else, you gonna miss the subtle cues
mynameisirrelevant ! (11 месяцев назад)
Great video...But another good trick is.....when people are talking to you, look through them..like for example if they are saying to you "I fixed my sink yesterday"...actually envision them bending down fixing their sink (while they're talking to you)...you ever stared at something but your mind was somewhere else?..kinda like that...( it eases the awkwardness)
Robert Hurtado (11 месяцев назад)
show no fear its better to intimidate than to be undermined.
jncyj (11 месяцев назад)
a girl 2 tables down I look at she does not look at me even though I look away, then look back at her she does not look back, she looks at me after more than 5 minutes then looks away quickly, the 2nd time she looks at me can I give her a little wave with my hand to let her know I see you? She did not give me a 2nd look should I have done something during her first look
John Treanor (1 год назад)
Great vid mate. Gotta’ say that stuff at the end about giving each person eye contact, never thought to do this. Makes a lot of sense.
kim_mai 15 (1 год назад)
this is the first time this happens with me ..i have a physics teacher her looks make me confused so i began lose my focus and dont feel comfortable when she she looks in my eyes ..when i try to be normal and look in a several places i cant compine between understanding what she says and what im doing ..and by the time i had this problem with the other teachers and then with people ..thats really annoying ..thanks for your vedio im going to try your advices~
Kazi 07 (1 год назад)
One precious video..kept in my "collected" plylist
The Law of Success Coach (1 год назад)
I've hear this before, but never like this. I will start doing this tomorrow. Thanks!!!
Jimmy Naraine (1 год назад)
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Boki Cvetkov (1 год назад)
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deffdefying (1 год назад)
I have a resting bitch face so when I look at someone they think I'm judging them and so they get uncomfortable, and so I get uncomfortable.
Tengo Jincharadze (1 год назад)
You can use sunglasses :D
Sweet Life (1 год назад)
I don't mind keep looking at your eyes ;)
Mochii (1 год назад)
my problem is that people think im making eye contact at them all the time, when theyre just in my field of vision
6S (1 год назад)
This is dumb & cowardly Just look at both of their eyes, their nose, and their mouth, all together. You'll see their soul, without falling into their eyes.
David Van Horn (2 месяца назад)
100%. Screw what the dude said, 6S has it
Devonté Cooper (3 месяца назад)
6S that feels completely right. I agree.
Xbot4Life (1 год назад)
Bro u got makeup on?
Muhammad Zeeshan sajid (1 год назад)
i think this lecture deliver for me
Egyptian Teen Actor (1 год назад)
Thank you sir , I 've been trying to look into that angel girl's eyes in the class but I've always felt shy , greetings from Egypt .
Alex Ganz (1 год назад)
But I'm already blind without glasses :)
shahin rezvanian (1 год назад)
it doesnt work
Mish Mushkila (1 год назад)
is this a latin english Accent?
strohbaron (1 год назад)
KitKat Ooh east european I guess. Latin nooo.
Peter Kiral (1 год назад)
Thanks! Nice video!
Jon W (1 год назад)
I can make eyes contact but maintaining it is problematic if its a conversation that is longer than 10 seconds. I may look away and then look back, and so on and so forth. Distance also makes a difference. If they are close, then I get uncomfortable.
You're Tubes (5 месяцев назад)
I couldnt even make eye contact. Now im forcing myself to do it, and i can hold it for 5-10 sec before feeling awkward, with time, it'll become second nature. Its only a matter of time.
Shaun Moore (6 месяцев назад)
I'm right there with you. I really hate anxiety and pain attacks.
Chinchin Chokhlei (10 месяцев назад)
U r great
Jana Roos (1 год назад)
people who are anxious to look in the eyes i dont trust. they are probably not confident. maybe they need to work on that
Camaro American Pride (1 год назад)
It is said that if you look directly in a person's eyes, no one in the world can lie to you without showing it indirectly.
Ahmedkhel Imran Khan Kakar (1 год назад)
Very very helpful and well explained 👍
Sdr Jr (1 год назад)
Great video! Great help! I needed this.
1 TonyS (1 год назад)
I can look at people's eyes in video but not in real life.
LocalTourist (29 дней назад)
You can do it, you just need a little practice to get comfortable with it, once you see that other people enjoy the eye contact you will lose all fear of it.
Black Butterfly Bye (2 месяца назад)
daniel (5 месяцев назад)
Meep (5 месяцев назад)
I wish i could in real life as well :(
Meep (5 месяцев назад)
1 TonyS so true.
Paris75 (1 год назад)
Thanks Jimmy for this inspirational video. By the way I LOVE the way useful and FREE videos posted on YouTube by guys like you, willing to help with no return and putting in so much work to have the vids done, are so often poorly commented, disliked by absolute NERDS that obviously have no other things to do than hating others because they didn't even come close to a single objective in their lives :) They are by themselves a great definition of slowlane beta people, and what we MUST not do in order to make it in our lives ! Thanks to you too haters :)
Thippeswamy D C (1 год назад)
thank you sir
samuel agbemavor (1 год назад)
we Need concret exemples
Le Greg (1 год назад)
False! When I'm talking to some girls, i want to make eye contact and create emotional contact but they still looking my forehead or hair. And I see the difference when someone look at me in the eyes
Zee (1 год назад)
Le Greg guys make such intense eye contact sometimes 😂 do you really notice the difference
MotoMatt (1 год назад)
Useful tip actually, although if you are within 2 feet or more of someone you have to look at the eyes, otherwise it throws the other person off from what I have noticed myself.
Kaizah (1 год назад)
The way he says uncomfortable is hilarious hahahaha
abhi ram (2 года назад)
abhi ram (2 года назад)
thanks jimmy ihave learned one new lesson today
Tim Tran (2 года назад)
nice tips. ty. ima try it.
Daily Dose Of Davis (2 года назад)
Look directly into someone's ass
Ash 2000 (14 дней назад)
I read this the exact second he said this and I died 😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭
Black Butterfly Bye (2 месяца назад)
When i saw the end i laugh a little thank you Davia
SN4VИ DJ F!SH BEATS M4Я7!И [SDFBM] (2 месяца назад)
Khalkaroth (2 месяца назад)
Chris Ruiz (9 месяцев назад)
Irrational Man (2 года назад)
this does not work, people think they have something on their forehead or on their nose, trust me, it just gets weird
_ _ (1 месяц назад)
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DateYana (1 год назад)
I've been looked into the eyes of in that way and it did feel strange, I kept wondering what is it that they're looking at slightly above me. turns out, my forehead
dreamer4all (1 год назад)
it works if your life depends on that (hypotically talking)- look someone in the eyes in an arm if u r confident
Irrational Man (2 года назад)
+el papi The death that rides a horse
el papi (2 года назад)
Irrational Man Lee Van Cleef
vleesevlons (2 года назад)
how does this help maintaining eye contact?
iAmROMAN zOLANSKI (2 года назад)
no one gonna mention how attractive this guy is??😂
ram priya (2 года назад)
thank u so much. u have changed d way I should behave.
syrah chan (2 года назад)
This actually helps, thankyou
راوية برهان (2 года назад)
thank you very much..
Med Naji (2 года назад)
wtf !!! i can see at anyone 's eyes while talking without any problem , i mean why leaving that beautiful contact (specialy withe girls)and see at the noise or the head ?!??
Keith Toy (2 года назад)
I really liked your advice on eye contact as well as the tip! Thanks!
roberto losano (2 года назад)
tell me what to do to avoid to look at someone beautiful
god girl (2 года назад)
Heart Donor (2 года назад)
I work at a job where I must maintain eye contact and lately I find it hard to look at women because they play a lot of games but you sir have made it easy for me to continue I wanna thank you so much. Another reason why I don't look at women is because the bible says turn thine eye from beautiful women. Now I have a good way how to turn my eyes away and it's perfect I'm going to try it today.!
Heart Donor (2 года назад)
This is great!
rcast22651 (2 года назад)
oop's or a better one
rcast22651 (2 года назад)
can.t her you in this video... You need a Mic.
Vino (2 года назад)
Excellent vid....
Mandalore the Stoic (2 года назад)
This is surprisingly helpful.
Subhan Waziri (2 года назад)
I will try this dude thanks
Debidas Ray Ray (2 года назад)
ugly and blob-blob-blob(not clear) voice
SICA- Sharin Is Carin Annaa (2 года назад)
tx for sharin
Fallen human not FRISK or chara (2 года назад)
help ...this boy he looks at me and stares and sometimes smiles looking down...help
John Ryan (2 года назад)
I'm sorry, but watching this video made me extremely anxious and uncomfortable. I think it's a mixture between your metrosexual personality, your facial expressions, and the frequency of your blinking. I hope this doesn't sound too weird.
lorrane (2 года назад)
thank you, even as a woman, I think your tips are relevant.
Avijit Sarker (2 года назад)
Saw Nay Lay (2 года назад)
Thank you very much it's really help for me
PBA Lowlights (2 года назад)
Dude! The background of this video is so cool!
LagiNaLangAko23 (2 года назад)
He's staring directly into the camera. I stared back. Suddenly felt something jump up... *stares at the ground in embarrassment *
Ahmed Mel (2 года назад)
Hilarious xD

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